{"id":6752,"date":"2018-12-19T07:00:17","date_gmt":"2018-12-19T06:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/roger.pcmsite.fr\/?p=6752"},"modified":"2020-03-11T16:55:49","modified_gmt":"2020-03-11T15:55:49","slug":"apprenez-a-vraiment-ecouter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rogerlannoy.com\/apprenez-a-vraiment-ecouter\/","title":{"rendered":"Apprenez \u00c0 Vraiment \u00c9couter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vous \u00eates-vous d\u00e9j\u00e0 retrouv\u00e9 devant quelqu\u2019un qui vous \u00e9coutait vraiment ? Qui vous faisait sentir unique ? Apprenez \u00e0 ma\u00eetriser cette aptitude.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7iwtyeUe_ts\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/center><center><\/center><\/p>\n<h2>Pourquoi apprendre \u00e0 \u00e9couter ?<\/h2>\n<p>Vous savez s\u00fbrement entendre, mais savez-vous vraiment \u00e9couter ? C\u2019est une caract\u00e9ristique que peu de personnes poss\u00e8dent r\u00e9ellement.<br \/>\nPourtant, c\u2019est un atout social tr\u00e8s important. Une fois ma\u00eetris\u00e9, vous serez \u00e0 m\u00eame de saisir l\u2019int\u00e9gralit\u00e9 du discours de votre interlocuteur tout en l\u2019encourageant \u00e0 s\u2019ouvrir totalement et en toute honn\u00eatet\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2>Le contact visuel<\/h2>\n<p>Garder le contact visuel avec la personne avec qui vous avez une conversation lui apportera une sensation de connexion. Vous lui indiquerez que vous \u00eates enti\u00e8rement \u00e0 son \u00e9coute et int\u00e9ress\u00e9.<br \/>\nAttention toutefois \u00e0 ne pas maintenir un regard fixe et vide. Gardez en t\u00eate la r\u00e8gle des 80\/20, 80% du temps regardez votre interlocuteur dans les yeux et 20% laissez libre votre regard.<\/p>\n<h2>La pr\u00e9sence<\/h2>\n<p>Il y a un d\u00e9calage entre notre capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 traiter l\u2019information et le flux verbal d\u2019une personne. En moyenne, la vitesse d\u2019\u00e9locution est de 150 mots par minute. Notre cerveau est capable d\u2019en traiter entre 400 et 600 soit le triple !<br \/>\nIl arrive parfois que notre esprit s\u2019\u00e9vade. Lorsque vous sentez que cela vous arrive, recentrez votre attention sur votre interlocuteur.<\/p>\n<h2>Le retour non-verbal<\/h2>\n<p>Il est bien connu que la majorit\u00e9 de notre communication est non-verbale, je ne reviendrais pas l\u00e0-dessus. Ce qui est important dans cette optique et de donner un feedback \u00e0 la personne avec qui vous parlez.<br \/>\nIl n\u2019y a rien de plus frustrant que de voir un visage impassible lorsque l\u2019on \u00e9voque des id\u00e9es.<br \/>\nHochez la t\u00eate de temps en temps, utilisez vos mains, changez de posture\u2026 Ce sont des signes qui peuvent para\u00eetre insignifiants, mais qui auront un impact fort et montrerons que votre attention dans la discussion est maintenue.<\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-6752\" data-postid=\"6752\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-6752 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vous \u00eates-vous d\u00e9j\u00e0 retrouv\u00e9 devant quelqu\u2019un qui vous \u00e9coutait vraiment ? Qui vous faisait sentir unique ? Apprenez \u00e0 ma\u00eetriser cette aptitude. &nbsp; Pourquoi apprendre \u00e0 \u00e9couter ? 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